"Balthazar, then." It's easy enough for Sam to go with, honestly. He nods in response before taking another sip of his wine, allowing himself another few moments to think.

"Well, even if I do have a kink that is on Castiel's no list, it's a kink that I would never play with him." Because there were things that a dom just didn't do. "For the most part, my kinks are fairly common. Bondage, blindfolds, gags. I'm good with a flogger and a whip, but I only ever use a cane for actual punishment scenes if it's agreed. For spanking I prefer my hand over other instruments. I also like giving massages and spoiling my subs, though I rarely have a chance to do that."